Triangle Arts and Entertainment – News and Reviews Theatre Dance Music Arts

Brazen and Beautiful, Theatre Raleigh’s I Am My Own Wife Proves Thought-Provoking and Relevant

David Henderson stars I Am My Own Wife for Theatre Raleigh (photo by Jennifer Griffin Robertson)

I Am My Own Wife, onstage now at Theatre Raleigh under the direction of Jesse Gephart, tells the fascinating true story of Charlotte von Mahlsdorf, at least as much of it as can be told. Charlotte is a person without clear definition, clear allegiances, or an entirely clear story. Yet, viewers get to know her- or at least the image she presented to others- very well in this one-person play starring David Henderson.

The curtains open on a purposefully cluttered set, one that is jam-packed with the treasures Charlotte has proudly collected throughout her intriguing life. However, viewers quickly discover that it is Charlotte herself who is the greatest treasure here.

Charlotte, who grew up in the 30s, was born a male but identified as a female from a young age. And, while many have lauded her as a hero, there have been statements and doings in her past that have cast doubt on whether or not she deserves this status. All of this and then some is explored in Doug Wright’s rich script, though no judgments are cast, which is part of the beauty of the work.

Also beautiful here is Henderson’s amazing portrayal of not just Charlotte herself, but of 33 other characters, including the play’s southern-accented author, who conducted a number of interviews with Charlotte before her death.

David Henderson stars I Am My Own Wife for Theatre Raleigh (photo by Jennifer Griffin Robertson)

While all of Henderson’s portrayals are effective, his greatest strength is when he is performing as Charlotte herself. Henderson embodies the character fully, down to every nuance, and adds in all the mystery and non-commitance that make her such a questionable and intriguing figure.

Strong lighting effects from Andrew Parks highlight the show’s most intense and dramatic moments. Each moment or piece of the play is also nicely moved along and centered by projections of the scene titles on the walls.

Everything here is so beautifully done that it takes some time away, without the distraction of the artistry, to ponder the play’s many messages. It is a work that brings into question what qualifies one as a “hero” or “idol” and even about what it says for a people to be so disenfranchised that they must scramble to find heroes wherever and however they can.

Thoughtful, provocative, and aesthetically beautiful, this is an important and still-relevant work that demands to be seen.

David Henderson stars I Am My Own Wife for Theatre Raleigh (photo by Jennifer Griffin Robertson)

Theatre Raleigh presents I AM MY OWN WIFE, directed by Jesse R. Gephart and starring David Henderson as Charlotte von Mahlsdorf, at 3 p.m. July 14, 8 p.m. July 17-19, 2 and 8 p.m. July 20, and 3 p.m. July 21 in the Sara Lynn and K.D. Kennedy, Jr. Theatre in the Duke Energy Center for the Performing Arts, 2 E. South St., Raleigh, North Carolina 27601.

TICKETS: $35 ($32.50 students, seniors, and active-duty military personnel).

BOX OFFICE: 919-832-9997,, or

GROUP RATES (10+ tickets): 919-832-9997 or

SHOW:,, and







Charlotte von Mahlsdorf (German transvestite founder of the Gründerzeit Museum of everyday objects, nee Lothar Berfelde, 1928-2002): (Women in European History), (Internet Movie Database), and (Wikipedia).

I Am My Own Wife (2003 Off-Broadway and Broadway drama and 2004 Tony Award® for Best Play and Pulitzer Prize for Drama winner): (Internet Off-Broadway Database), (Internet Broadway Database), (Pulitzer Prizes page), and (Wikipedia).

The Script: (Google Books).

Study Guide: (Goodman Theatre of Chicago).

Doug Wright (Dallas, TX-born playwright and screenwriter): (Internet Off-Broadway Database), (Internet Broadway Database), (Internet Movie Database), and (Wikipedia).

Jesse R. Gephart (Garner, NC director): (AboutTheArtists resume), (Raleigh Little Theatre bio), and (Facebook page).

David Henderson (Raleigh, NC actor and co-artistic director and founder of Honest Pint Theatre Company): (Honest Pint bio), (AboutTheArtists resume), (Facebook page), and (Twitter page).


Susie Potter is a Raleigh, NC-based freelance writer and editor. She is a 2009 graduate of Raleigh’s Meredith College, where she majored in English. She holds graduate degrees in teaching and American literature from North Carolina State University in Raleigh. In addition to her work for Triangle Arts and Entertainment, she is an award-winning author of short fiction. Her works have appeared in The Colton Review, Raleigh Quarterly, Broken Plate Magazine, Big Muddy: A Journal of the Mississippi River Valley, the Chaffey Review, and Existere. To read all of Susie Potter’s Triangle Arts and Entertainment articles and reviews, click To read more of her writings, click,, and

Tagged as: , , , , , , , ,

Categorised in: A&E Theatre Reviews, Lead Story, Reviews